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Wednesday, February 3, 2010

"Think and Grow Chick" of the Day: Meet the Fabulous Kimmay

For those of you who don't know, Kim of KimmayTube on Youtube.com is a phenomenal lady to both watch and glean life advice from. I was lucky enough to score an interview with her, and I have to say that it is a real treat. Before we dive into the interview, check out one of my favorite videos from her entitled, "Advice to a 23 year old me—My financial Fall, Pt. 2"

(embeded with permission from KimmayTube)

Hello Kimmay! Welcome to Think & Grow Chick, a blog were I document achievement of goals important to young, black women. Can you start off by telling our readers what it is you do?

I'm a graphics consultant.  I help companies to see where they are going through info-graphics or other creative forms (like boardgames).  It has less to do with art and more with understanding processes and problem solving.  Having an art background has helped, but most people in my profession majored in business, journalism or marketing.

What is a typical day in your life like?

Honestly, there is no such thing as a typical day for me. Sometimes I have to travel, other times I work from home (in my pajamas). But a typical week includes exercise, preparing meals on my nights to cook and checking email/Youtube 50 million times. Now that I'm starting my new company LUV Naturals, I spend a lot of time researching, contacting manufacturers and making purchases for the website. I'm excited and everything is coming together nicely. But there is still a lot of work left to be done!

How did you get into your current space in life? Can you tell us about your background?

That is such an open ended question! All I can say is that I know what I want in life and I go for it.
I don't make excuses. Absolutely no excuses!  I'm motivated by the success and talents of others and I'm willing to plan & work for what I want out of life. That is key.  If you are discouraged by the success of others, that is a personal problem that needs to be worked out pronto! lol.  It will only hold you back and keep you from realizing your full potential. Even that slight tinge of jealousy or green envy is a sign that it is time to step up your game, not hate on theirs. I’ve been living by this “rule” for the past 10 years now.  It works. Lol.

What were your goals back in college or during your youth? Did they change over time, or did they always lead to what it is you are doing now?

There was no straight path to where I am in life today.  I've always known how to adapt and self-critique in order to improve myself. The only thing that has changed is that now I have a plan.  Having a plan is necessary to make your vision a reality.  You have to see it, schedule the steps required to get there and just do it.  Even if you don't have a full fleshed out plan, make a sketch of it, write something down. That will be the start of your journey.

Every lesson/skill that you've learned in life *should* automatically be applied to everything you do in the future.  Your unique experiences set you apart from the pack.

How did KimmayTube come about? What was your motivation?

I started kimmaytube because I believed I had something unique to offer to the natural hair community.  I love the entire creative process of taking a video from concept to final.

Also, I felt that if I didn't like the way natural hair was being presented, I needed to promote my ideals.  For example, I'm personally not a fan of weaves for naturals *ducks tomatoes*. Lol.  I'm not!  I think it sends the message that our hair can't be managed and worn on its own, without "help" in order to be beautiful and presentable to the world. So while I think it is perfectly fine for a natural to sport her weaves/wigs etc.

I want to help put forth an alternative message to the world (we are global on Youtube!) that we can.  At all stages, we can wear our own hair and be beautiful.

Plus the myth about afro-textured hair not being able to grow long needs to be dispelled! And then I won’t feel like weaves send a bad message about our self-image. They can simply be known as a styling option not a “crutch” or something to hide our hair beneath.

My channel is for everyone. No matter the race or hair type. People need to see more positive images of black women. To let the media tell it, we’re mostly, sad, angry, unhappy, unfulfilled etc. but this is the internet.  We can share our lives and show the world (and ourselves) who we really are or where we want to be.

Please describe some of the realities of promoting yourself using social media? How has it been for you?

I have found it to be incredibly easy because I AM A FAN OF YOUTUBE, period.
I don't just take cues from other naturals, I also watch what other non-hair related Youtubers are doing.  You can learn a lot from them (editing, graphics etc.).

Plus, I create videos on a regular basis. You have to be visible on Youtube in order to grow an audience. It happens gradually too (it has taken me 8 months to get this far).

And if the fans love what you're doing (and if you're helpful) they will spread the word about you (Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, etc.). I LOVE my subscribers!  They show me so much love and support and I am deeply grateful.

What would you describe to be your greatest moment since becoming a success on Youtube?

I enjoy making the top 15 highest rated in the How to Style category on a regular basis.  I love the emails and comments I get from my subscribers telling me how helpful or inspiring I've been.  It can be overwhelming at times!  But helping & teaching others is rewarding.

I see from your last video that you have are promoting LuvNaturals.com, your up-and-coming business. Can you tell us more about this project?

I've started an online retail company for hair accessories, hair products and hair education tools.   It will launch on February 14th.  I'll have more to say about it in a future video. :0)

You seem to be both an entrepreneurial and creative person in general. What is your stance on entrepreneurship? What are some of your personal entrepreneurial goals?

My goal is to launch and run a successful company! :-)

If you had to work with a young woman like you and help her get a dream or idea off of the ground, what are some key principles you would be certain to stress to her?

Give yourself permission to do whatever you want to do.  You don't need the approval of others to start your own business.  You need to be prepared and be willing to put in the work to make it successful.  It won't be handed to you.

Clearly the internet has been instrumental in developing KimmayTube. What are some of your recommendations for promoting on the internet?

Give people something of value and they will come back.  Connect with them.  Be yourself. (so cliché but true).

I love, love, love your summer and winter fashion videos, and the pieces you that you model for your fans! Can you describe your personal style?

Comfortable, Flexible, Interchangeable.  It is important to build a wardrobe with the basics/ the "classic" pieces that never go out of style. You can always mix & match and add new accessories to freshen up your basics. ;0)

How has your personal style developed over time?

As my age, profession, marital status changed, so did my style.  I shop at stores that offer clothing made of high quality materials.  I can look at the way a garment is constructed and determine if it's going to fall apart and fade easily.  I want my clothing to say that I'm a grown woman but also that I have a whimsical spirit. I'm well read/cultured,  interested in the arts and that I take pride in my appearance.  But I know that the way I carry myself and my body language also tells
these things and more.

How does your personal style affect your approach to your line of work and clients?

My personal style doesn't affect my approach with my clients. My feeling of confidence and competence does. They only care about whether or not I can deliver. I'm probably ten times more stylish when going on a date with my husband or to the grocery store! :0)

What are your recommendations to someone looking to develop their own personal style?

My advice is to know your body type.  Understand what is flattering on your figure and work it!  Allow your clothing choices to say something about you because your outside appearance is all that most people (everyday strangers) are going to see. Be comfortable & confident.  Confidence comes from knowing who you are and embracing what is unique about you.

Has the economy affected your approach to personal styling at all? What is your advice for looking fly on a budget?

The economy has not affected my personal hair styling because I never really spent a lot of money on my hair. Before launching LUV Naturals, I tried different products, but my collection happened gradually.  Literally, over the years. Ex: Some of my Miss Jessies products were bought in 2006!

Wearing your hair in protective styles (like two strand twists, braids, buns, tuck and go's-like my first video) are not expensive at all.  In fact, if you take care of your hair and not focus on having it "out and fly" all the time, you won't need silicone based products to mask your damage.

My staples, aloe vera juice, castor oil, jojoba oil, avocado oil & shea butter are all fairly inexpensive.

Many of your subscribers also love you because you have fabulous natural hair. Can briefly tell us about your natural experience?

My natural hair experience is not at all typical.  I've been working on this "natural thing" for 13 years now.  I was natural before hair forums, before there was any mainstream language about it all. Words like "transitioning" & "big chop" weren't common terms.

I ceased relaxing my hair back in 1997, wore braid extensions for a few years, then big chopped my hair several times between 1999 - 2005, got a texturizer in 2006 and hated it.  I had to cut drastically cut my hair until the texturized pieces were gone.  After that, I began to research about hair through books and when I discovered Youtube I really saw the amazing style options that I had never thought of doing. I practiced them on my hair and then discovered techniques on my own.  I've now grown my hair to the longest length it has ever been in my life. I continue to learn so much.

What are some of the products that you use? 

1) Giovanni Smooth As Silk Conditioner (I use for deep conditioning treatments)
2) 50/50 Hydrating Balance (as a detangling creme)
3) Kinky Curly Curling Custard (as a styling "treat" because I don't wear my hair in curly styles often)

Would you describe yourself as more of a minimalist or an addict when it comes to caring for your hair?

Somewhere in between, because now I buy products to test them on my hair (and friends/family) to determine whether or not they are worthy of a review (or for selling on LUV Naturals).

What is your advice for those just getting into the natural blogging game?

Know your purpose and what you have to offer. Take the time to understand what is missing in order to create opportunity. There is SO MUCH opportunity.  Find your niche and make sure it's something you'd do for free, then it's less like work.  But believe me, it'll STILL be work, just more enjoyable. :0)

What is the response to your hair given your business and the types of clients that you work with?

My hair has never been an issue. I wear my hair in styles that compliment my more conservative dress code when working in a professional environment. 

Do you consider your look to be professional?


What is your advice for women who want to break out on their own, but are concerned about how their hair or sense of style might affect people’s perceptions of them?

I have no advice for them. If they are overly-concerned with what others think of them, then they aren't ready.  Wow. I know that sounds mean. lol. But I seriously can't relate to people who allow others to dictate their precious time on earth, sorry.  Our lives are too short not to be lived and enjoyed and be ourselves. Life must be honored and respected every day.

I personally appreciated the four-part series on financial advice that you recently did. What's the best financial advice you feel every fly, confident female should know?

Live below your means. And just because you can buy it or barely afford it doesn't mean you should have it. The Repo Man will get you. Believe that! lol.

What are your personal measures of success? By your own standards, do you consider yourself successful?

Success is freedom to do whatever I want to do with my day. Everyday. Yes, I feel successful because I've accomplished many things I've set out to do, like traveling, establishing a reputation as person with an excellent work ethic, finding a life partner to love... I'm content with my life.

But I worked and continue to WORK for it. Sometimes that means literally working and putting in the time to perfect my craft or working on myself, personally.

What is a “Think and Grow Chick” to you?

I have no idea!  I'd never heard of the term until you presented it to me . I look forward to learning more though.  I think you’re on to something.  :-)

Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to share some insight with my readers. You are truly a “Think and Grow Chick”! Is there anything else you’d like to share or that you want everyone to know about you? What are the best ways for one to get in contact with you?

No problem!  Thanks for asking me to share. :0)



Kimmay is freaking amazing. Make sure to check out her Youtube channel at http://www.youtube.com/user/kimmaytube


  1. I was introduced to Kimmaytube via your facebook page and ever since I've been hooked, so thank you! :-) I think she is a phenomenal woman and the interview was very insightful, great questions! I hope to see more of her video & can't wait for the launch of LUV naturals (though I'm still transitioning). Great interview on a positive professional creative African American woman.

  2. I discovered Kimmay's YT page early in my HHJ and I LOVE her! I also loved her Advice to 23 Year Old Me series!

    Great interview!

  3. Kimmay is my absolute favorite Utuber! Thanks for presenting her interview.

    Angie R.

  4. I subscribed to her channel like two weeks ago and I learned about this blog on Clutch today...what a small social networking world we live in.